Releasing May 2025

You’ve built the life you ‘should’ want.

Now, create the one you actually want.   

You did everything right. So why does it feel so wrong?

You built the career. Made the money. Took care of everyone. But beneath the surface, something feels…off.

You feel stuck - successful but unsatisfied. Trapped - like you can’t admit something’s missing. Alone - surrounded by people but disconnected from yourself.

The problem isn’t you. It’s the rules you were taught to follow. Succeed at all costs. Always provide. Never ask for help.

But what if those rules are why you feel like this?

It’s time to unlearn.

This book will help you unlearn:

  • The illusion that your life is fine, when deep down, you feel stuck.

  • The belief your next win, deal or dollar will finally fix things.

  • The outdated rules that real men suffer in silence.

  • The myth that passion and intimacy fade over time.

  • The relentless cycle of fear, doubt and feeling trapped.

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The hidden traps keeping you stuck - and how to break free.

See why success, money and achievement still doesn’t feel enough - and what to do about it.

    Meet the author:

    Cassandra Andrews has built a reputation helping midlife men navigate the hidden struggles of success and help them create lives that are truly fulfilling.

    A Master Practitioner in Neuro Linguistic Programming, Timeline Therapy and Motivational Maps, she works with FTSE 100 CEOs, elite athletes, Harvard academics and multi-million-pound founders across the UK and US.

    Dedicated to shining a light on the unspoken struggles of high-net worth men over 40, her mission is simple: to help men unlearn the outdated rules that keep them trapped and redefine success on their terms.

    Unlearning Masculinity is the conversation too many men never get to have - but desperately need.